Why Your Emotional Beliefs Still Matter in Love (Even Before Astrology Entered the Chat)
How Emotional Beliefs in Relationships Shape Love (Even Before Astrology)
Before I trained in astrology, before I was decoding moon signs or diving into synastry charts, I was working exclusively as a couples relationship coach. My work centered around helping people understand what was really going on beneath the surface of their relationship challenges.
This video was recorded during that time—and while my work has evolved, the message in it remains powerfully true:
👉 Emotional beliefs in relationships shape how we love, connect, and communicate.
From a Cloudy Blood Moon to Emotional Clarity
In the video, I share a story about trying to catch a glimpse of the Blood Moon—only to have it obscured by clouds. That moment sparked a memory of a friend who once explained the emotional power of the moon in astrology. She told me, “Don’t worry so much about your star sign. Look to your moon. That’s how you truly connect emotionally.”
At the time, I didn’t have the astrology background to fully unpack that wisdom. But I felt its truth.
Years later, as someone who now weaves astrology into my work, I can see how our moon sign reveals emotional patterns—but even without astrology, the beliefs we hold about emotions are running the show.
Why Emotional Beliefs in Relationships Matter
Think of your emotional beliefs like an operating system. They quietly influence everything:
- How you express (or suppress) emotions
- How you interpret your partner’s feelings
- How safe you feel showing up as your whole self
If you believe anger is dangerous, you might shut down during conflict.
If your partner believes sadness is manipulation, your vulnerability might be misunderstood.
And if you both have different “rules” around expressing emotions? That’s where emotional disconnection begins.
Ask Yourself: What Do I Really Believe?
In the video, I offer three powerful prompts to explore your emotional beliefs in relationships:
- What do you believe about emotions like anger, sadness, or vulnerability?
- Do you have internal rules about which emotions are “okay” to feel or express?
- Are there blocks—conscious or subconscious—that stop you from expressing your emotions fully?
These questions are foundational. They allow you to see how your emotional lens might be clouding your relationships, creating patterns of disconnection, or causing you to shrink in love.
What This Means—With or Without Astrology
Today, I integrate astrology deeply into my practice. Your moon sign, your partner’s moon, your chart ruler—they all offer incredible insight. But this video was a turning point for me, because it reminded me that transformation starts with self-awareness.
Emotional beliefs in relationships are where true compatibility begins.
They shape how you show up long before any planetary alignment does.
Ready to Explore More?
If you’re curious about your emotional patterns and want to go deeper—whether through astrology or belief work—I invite you to explore my free email series at meganoneill.ca. It’s filled with exercises and insights to help you uncover the beliefs that may be holding you back from love that feels aligned, expressive, and real.
Because when you’re in choice—not ruled by subconscious beliefs—you’re in your power.
And that’s when love gets real.
If this speaks to you, head over to meganoneill.ca and sign up for my Moon Guide where I guide you through the connection between beliefs, emotions, and relationships—with of course astrology now woven in. Click here