Dating Authentically: What Your Sun Sign Wants You to Know

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Ever found yourself asking, “Why do I keep attracting the same kind of person?” Or maybe you’re dating someone new and wondering if the chemistry is real—or just another round of déjà vu. That’s where your Sun sign (and theirs) can give you a surprising amount of insight.

I grew up reading the classic and entertaining astrology book Linda Goodman’s Sun Signs, and I always look back fondly on my first exposure to learning about Sun signs in such a fun way. What I didn’t understand at the time was how important it was that I was learning about my Sun sign. You see, to understand our Sun sign means we understand how we are meant to shine in our life.

Over the past 20 years, I’ve supported women and couples in understanding themselves on a deeper level—blending mindset work and astrology to help them feel safe being fully themselves in relationships. Because when you know who you are, it becomes so much easier to love and be loved in return.

As a relationship coach of many years to hundreds of couples and individuals, I know that one thing can really bode well for the success of a relationship: beginning by being your authentic self—not what you think the other person wants. That’s where your Sun sign comes in. It can help you understand yourself more deeply, feel confident, and show you how you may shine more.

Your Sun sign is more than zodiac fluff—it’s a shortcut to being who you really are.

Here are three takeaways I want you to learn about the Sun in astrology when you’re dating and hoping to find that special person to connect with for the long term:

  • Expressing your Sun helps you feel complete and fulfilled.
  • In dating or early relationships, showing who you really are sets you up well for long-term success.
  • Your Sun sign’s motivation will affect how you date or what you choose to do on a date.

For example: If you’re a Cancer, you crave emotional security—but if your new flame is an Aquarius, their emotional aloofness might leave you second-guessing the connection.

My Sagittarius Sun friend is dating a Virgo Sun, and he wanted to stay in and watch television while she wanted to go out for a hike.

It doesn’t mean it won’t work, but knowing this can change how you show up in the relationship. Understanding what you need to feel balanced in your relationship is so important!

I came at this from the point of view of helping my clients create relationships that work for the long term.

So I created a guide that’s perhaps a bit Gemini-centric—our Sun sign likes to have fun and thrives on socializing—so I’m always looking for ways a sign might enjoy dating in a way that’s most aligned. Sun signs have different ways they…

👉 Want a quick reference for your Sun sign (and your match’s)?

Download my free guide, What’s Your Sign? for Dating Intel for Success — a fun and soulful breakdown of each sign’s dating personality so you can date smarter, not harder.

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